Is Trauma (from Men) Blocking Your Relationships (with Men)?

If you’ve been wounded by the masculine, working with a male coach is a counter-intuitive way to heal, love, and trust again.

Take the “Masculine Wounding” Self-Quiz:

  • Do you have resentments toward men or the patriarchy that your lover can’t/won’t hear?

  • Are you suffering from low self-worth, auto-immune issues, anxiety, or niceness?

  • Is it hard to voice your truth in a relationship and get the reaction you want?

  • Do you attract the same type of partner over and over again? (And again?)

  • Do you feel like you’re “too much” or don’t deserve to be worshiped?

  • Is your sexuality a mystery, a ghost, or a source of shame?

  • Is distrust (or distrustful behavior) a theme in your love life?

  • Are there toxic dynamics present right now?

  • Did bad things happen to you?

  • Do you disbelieve safety, love, connection, joy, spontaneity, or rapturous sexual pleasure?

The Sad Truth is…

…if you’re inhabiting a female body, a couple of those items probably apply to you. 

But if most of the items on that list feel true, your traumatic history with men is blocking your access to healthy love, soulful sex, and deeper connection.

You’ve done the therapy. Now what?

Years of therapy (with female therapists) will only get you so far. 

The idea of seeing a male therapist? That’s the last thing in the world you’d want to do! Some guy in a polo shirt telling you nothing about himself while poking and prodding in your psyche. Fuck that.

And it’s nearly impossible to solve these issues by talking with your partner. He can’t handle it, and frankly, he shouldn’t have to; bringing him the fullness of your rage will damage your connection.

So what do you do with this pain and blockage?

Bury the Pain & Watch Yourself Bloom

Hey again, I’m Jack Bohannan.

During a professional training, I discovered a strange capacity I didn’t know I had:

I can sit with women in their grief, disappointment, and rage towards men. 

Through boundaries work, somatic exercises, role play — and maybe some screaming — I take your negativity and literally discharge it into the ground using an energetic practice called qigong. 

Your pain is sown into the Earth like a seed; the flowers pop up next spring.

This work isn’t about analysis. It’s relational, connective, and connected. It’s an embodied way of reexperiencing a healthy connection with the masculine. It becomes your map to a healthy nervous system and relationship.

For me, your emotional expression is an honor — not a burden — and it’s with great joy that I help clients release their pain and rebirth themselves.

Think it’d make sense to connect? Let’s jump on a Zoom call (or just audio).

If working together feels like a fit, it’d be an honor to help you too. Schedule your call here:

Testimonials:

From Danielle, Ely (?), and Harpa

“Why Do You Do This Work?”

Like you, I experienced a grave theft of selfhood. 

(If we connect for a call, I’m happy to fill you in on the personal deets.)

But, long-story-short, I feel empathy. And I have a depth of understanding that allows my clients to feel safe, seen, and held.

Supporting other humans in this way is a great honor, and I feel such gratitude to have the sensitivity, strength, and tools to do so safely.

When You’re Ready…

Nobody can tell you what’s right for you. 

And the right coaching at the wrong time is still the wrong coaching.

But if something inside you feels called to explore this work, I strongly encourage you to reach out. Because it’s profound.

We’ll have a 20-minute Zoom or audio call so you can ask questions and just get a sense of who I am. 

If that feels good, you’re welcome to ask me for more information. There’s no push. You have to take the initiative for working together.

I honor and respect your courage to heal.

All the best,

Jack