Connect Better with Women & Yourself

Discover proven ways to overcome your avoidant attachment style and connect for real.

Are you about to mess up a good thing?

Or are you hooked deep in a relationship that feels wrong?

Maybe someone has labeled you “emotionally unavailable.” Uhh, thanks, honey.

Or maybe there’s heartbreak you just can’t shake off— and you’re starting to wonder if something is wrong with you.

Ouch — I feel you. I was there. 

And it was really frustrating to be doing my best as a lover while getting clear messages that I was failing at meeting her needs.

If that’s you, attachment issues might be the cause.

How the Biggest Problem of “Modern Dating” Can Work to Your Advantage as a Man

You’re about to have better connections with the women in your life. And interesting emails every week thereafter. (No spam.)

Avoidant Attachment

Balance Freedom w/Connection

“Attachment theory” has become all the rage in pop psych. It’s the idea that childhood relationships influence later ones. We get molded.

If YOU experienced overwhelming early relationships or other stressful conditions, you might avoid connection. You might have an “avoidant attachment style.”

If you’re reading this page, you might have already diagnosed yourself as “an avoidant.”

It’s not terminal. But the thing is, it’s really hard to break those patterns.

But you can! — and I can help.

I healed. You can too.

Coaching

Be her best ever

My name is Jack Bohannan, and I coach men to have better relationships with themselves — and better relationships with women as a result.

There are proven tools to straighten out your F-ed up attachment issues and become “emotionally available” — which is incredibly hot for women.

My coaching — and the tools you’ll receive — will transform your current relationship. 

(Or, if you’re single, you’ll become a very desirable partner.)

It won’t be easy but when we do our “inner work” and face life head-on, your relationships with women become easier, fulfilling, and fun.

Click below to read more about me.

Break Free from Avoidant Attachment

You CAN have a healthy relationship. It’s 100% possible. You can feel free, deeply connected with women, and in touch with your emotions (in a way that brings you more power and control).

I made the journey. You can too.

Even if you’re severely avoidant and shut down from yourself, you can “become human.”

You can taste life for the first time.

FAQs

  • Yes.

    Our deepest relational patterns can be rewired with new experiences of healthy connection.

    This happens in your body. You’ll have new insights as we work together, but the core work is deeper. It’s happening without your mind in the driver’s seat.

    You will release compulsions and difficult emotions to experience life — and love! — in new ways.

  • Some of these tools you’ll be familiar with. Stuff like breathwork.

    Others — like exercises for setting boundaries and stating what you really want — will utterly transform your relating. 

    Along the way, you’ll meet your emotions and reclaim your instincts.

  • Yes.

    But please know that I’m working in service of the health of individuals — not the health or continuity of the relationship.

  • Totally.

    Connection and healing are very possible on Zoom! 

    In fact, some clients prefer the online format for reasons beyond scheduling convenience. 

    On Zoom, I’m mentally and emotionally present with you, but the comfort of your physical home provides safety you can’t get in an office complex.

  • Slightly more than therapy. 

    Cost depends on the number of session, which is based on the client’s healing needs.

    For the right client, this work provides quick relief of the deepest, hardest issues in ways therapy can’t.

    A package of sessions is best because a significant engagement is necessary to create significant results.

  • After releasing trauma and attachment wounding, you’ll be empowered to have deeper connections in ways that feel safer and more fulfilling. You may find 1) your partner treats you differently, 2) difficult events affect you less, or 3) you’re attracting better, healthier partners into your life.

    My clients build a foundation for healthy partnership by creating a healthy relationship with themselves.

    With that foundation in place, they’re able to bring the most deeply attractive, healthy version of themselves into relationships.

  • You don’t. 

    You’re fine how you are.

    I know this is popular online — and there’s good reason to explore gender polarity/masculinity — but your masculine gifts will manifest naturally when you return to your body.

    Your emotions are your instincts. Your body is your animalistic nature. 

    When you get out of your head, you embody your natural (masculine) state.