Do You Attract the Same Type of Partner Over and Over?

Or have the same fights with your current partner? “Experiential coaching” can help you take back control and re-wire your nervous system for healthy love…

Quiz: Is Relational Trauma (from Men) Affecting Your Love Life…?

  1. Do you attract avoidant men, “situationships,” or narcissists?

  2. Are you suffering from self-worth issues, auto-immune problems, or ‘niceness’?

  3. Does your BODY disbelieve safety, connection and love?

  4. Do YOU pull away when love gets too close?

  5. …or do you overextend yourself in relationships and forget your boundaries?

  6. Is it hard to voice your TRUTH in a relationship — and get the reaction you want?

If You Answered ‘Yes’…

Your past is blocking you from finding a healthy partnership.

When you resolve “relational trauma,” you will begin to feel safe, secure, powerful, sexy, and loved… on YOUR terms.

(congratulations in advance)

Go Beyond Therapy

Therapy is great for creating insight. But it can leave us feeling crazy as we watch ourselves play out the same old patterns — just with more awareness.

Your relationships are where the “rubber meets the road.” They’re where your real healing (or trauma) happens, and where new experiences overwrite old ones. 

Yet co-healing with a romantic partner is hard. Because when everyone is wounded and trying to get their needs met, you’re likely to re-open each other’s wounds.

Experiential coaching — with a man — is a potential solution to find safety and heal old patterns.

Hey Again, I’m Jack Bohannan.

Redefining Relationship

I help you re-experience relationship using the Somatica Method®. (Which I didn’t make up. It’s a thing.)

Together, we’ll enter into a profoundly transformative relationship to practice: 

  • Boundary setting

  • Expressing needs

  • Addressing “shadow issues'“

  • Receiving kindness

  • Creating attraction

  • Increasing somatic self-awareness (of desire, aversion, shame, sexual energy, etc.)

This relationship is about you!

As the coach, I’m here as a skillful support with some power tools.

But — unlike a real relationship — you don’t have to worry about me. You’re not meeting your partner’s needs. The focus is cleanly on you and exploring what you want/need.

You come away with new experiences as a benchmark for what you’ll attract in the world. You will reclaim yourself from trauma and confusion.

Some of the Somatic Method is specifically sexual. This is a welcome topic in our work together, if that’s helpful.

Supporting other humans in this way is a great honor, and I feel such gratitude to have the sensitivity, strength, and tools to do so.

Sound interesting?

Words that make me blush…

  • As a therapist, I was impressed with how safe, seen and connected I felt with Jack right away. He brings heart, humility and authenticity to his work. I love how he is so grounded in his own energy that I do not need to "take care of him," or guard my boundaries --I can just relax into the space

    Danielle S.

  • I was in a relationship with a person some might call an "avoidant"... yet again. Coaching sessions with Jack were like looking at life struggles with a new set of eyes. I was able to roleplay, meditate, cry, exclaim, etc., because I felt an open communication with him, no judgement, just understanding and gentle guidance on how to proceed through a tumultuous relationship.

    Crystal R.

  • Jack accessed parts of me emotionally that I'd never explored. I'm so grateful -- and still trying to digest our work together!

    Laura C.

FAQs

  • Yes.

    Our deepest relational patterns can be rewired with new experiences of healthy connection.

    This happens in your body. You’ll have new insights as we work together, but the core work is deeper. It’s happening without your mind in the driver’s seat.

    You will release compulsions and difficult emotions to experience life — and love! — in new ways.

  • Maybe.

    This journey is about you, your heart, and your truth. It will transform your relational health and increase your ability to connect with healthy partners.

    Your transformation will inspire change in your relationship — or clarity that your relationship isn’t meeting your needs. 

    Your partner may be inspired to change. Or they may react poorly to your health.

  • Yes.

    But please know that I’m working in service of the health of individuals — not the health or continuity of the relationship.

  • Totally.

    Connection and healing are very possible on Zoom! 

    In fact, some clients prefer the online format for reasons beyond scheduling convenience. 

    On Zoom, I’m mentally and emotionally present with you, but the comfort of your physical home provides safety you can’t get in an office complex.

  • About like therapy.

    Check out my pricing page

  • “Relationship lab” is the idea of practicing relational skills in a safe container to have new experiences that redefine how we relate. It’s part of the Somatica® Method.

    The practitioner self-discloses their experience — in real time — to give the client authentic feedback and connection, but the emphasis stays on the client’s healing.

    This approach limits hierarchy and removes some of the weird barriers of conventional therapy.

  • After releasing trauma and attachment wounding, you’ll be empowered to have deeper connections in ways that feel safer and more fulfilling. You may find 1) your partner treats you differently, 2) difficult events affect you less, or 3) you’re attracting better, healthier partners into your life.

    My clients build a foundation for healthy partnership by creating a healthy relationship with themselves.

    With that foundation in place, they’re able to bring the most deeply attractive, healthy version of themselves into relationships.

When You’re Ready to Heal…

I don’t know if this coaching is right for you. Or if I’m the right person for your journey.

But if something inside you feels called to explore this work, I strongly encourage you to reach out. Because it’s profound.

We’ll have a 20-minute video call so you can ask questions and just get a sense of who I am. 

There’s no push. You have to take the initiative for working together.

I honor and respect your courage to heal.

All the best,

Jack

More words…

  • Jack's strong yet soft and honoring masculine presence is bringing up all sorts for me to look at and be with. I'm so grateful for this opportunity for "relationship lab" with him -- it's helping me see some of my old patterns more clearly.

    Elysabeth B.

  • You've completely restored my faith in men and masculinity. Thank you doesn't begin to describe it. A million thank you's doesn't describe it!

    Eliwa O.

  • It feels like a weight has been lifted off my chest. This has felt really good.

    Dani K.